
From 2 Timothy 3:2. This disobedience and rebellion toward parents have caused a breakdown of the family; and so, instead of following God’s design in the family authority and structure, each member of the family (children and adults) go their own way in following the path of self-love. This path of the rebel no doubt seems much easier; for it is the way of the old sinful, lustful self. The mentality here is to satisfy my own desires and wants first, before pleasing God and parents. And it follows right along with what the world (and even professionals) are saying—that self-love is most important.
And there is so much in the world to build on this mentality: our entertainment (TV, movies, etc.), social media, many eating establishments to satisfy our body cravings, various forms of pornography to feed our lusts, and of course the world’s emphasis on self-image. It is no wonder that there is a decline in the importance of the family.
The solution to counter the family breakdown, as I see it, must begin with proper training of children. Proverbs 22:6 says, “Train up a child in the way he should go, even when he is old he will not depart from it.”
It is well known that early training will insure lifelong good habits; and the best training is to teach godly principles from God’s word—even to begin a regiment of Scripture memory. Oh, it is so much easier to memorize Scripture when you are young. And when the child has fifty to sixty good verses under his belt, it will make a difference in the way he lives. And I employ you parents to do most of the training yourself. You can let Sunday School programs help with it, but you are responsible for your own children. Don’t let a busy life take you away from the training of your children. Here is a passage to consider:
Deuteronomy 6:4-9
“Hear, O Israel! The Lord is our God, the Lord is one! 5 “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. 6 “These words, which I am commanding you today, shall be on your heart. 7 “You shall teach them diligently to your sons and shall talk of them when you sit in your house and when you walk by the way and when you lie down and when you rise up. 8 “You shall bind them as a sign on your hand and they shall be as frontals on your forehead. 9 “You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.
Way back, just after Israel received the Ten Commandments, it was the plan of God that each family (the parents and the children) were to memorize, and meditate on, and teach the Scriptures, and to talk about them inside and outside of their house—so that they were on their heart and in their life.
And bible knowledge must be followed up with loving discipline and correction. It can never be the goal just to store up knowledge. It must be our ultimate goal, as it was with Israel, to love the LORD our God with all our heart and soul and might. And the parents must instill this goal in their children.
Now, even though disobedience toward parents is prophesied for these last days, parents, as well as children must try continually to stop the moral decay of the family and believe that God will be pleased with our effort. Here are some Scriptures to consider.
Colossians 3:20
Children, be obedient to your parents in all things, for this is well-pleasing to the Lord.
This is a good verse for children to memorize. When they see from the holy Scriptures that God commands them to obey their parents in all things, they may be more likely to do it. And also, seeing that it is pleasing to the Lord to obey them, this will encourage them.
Proverbs 1:8-9
Hear, my son, your father’s instruction
And do not forsake your mother’s teaching;
9 Indeed, they are a graceful wreath to your head
And ornaments about your neck.
Here is another good memory verse. Parents ought to instill in their children that their obedience and careful listening will greatly pay off; it will be like earning a medal. And if parents are wise, they will actually award worthy children some kind of award for good conduct that they can display.
Ephesians 6:2-3
HONOR YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER (which is the first commandment with a promise), 3 SO THAT IT MAY BE WELL WITH YOU, AND THAT YOU MAY LIVE LONG ON THE EARTH.
Not enough has been said about this truth—that obeying and honoring parents will actually bring us good health and longer life. The evidence that I have seen supports this. Those that have a good family life and who love their parents live long and are happy. But those that are involved in crime and sins tend to die young.
Source: From the book I am presently writing, will be entitled, Difficult Times in these Last Days: 19 Attributes that Depict These Days (from 2 Timothy 3:2-5).











